Be Connected, Feel Significant, and Be in Control (again) of your Life and Love
Are you ever sick and tired of loneliness? This is very literal. Did you know that severe loneliness is linked to poor health issues? Loneliness is attributed to the pain of the heart as well as gradual pain to other parts of your body.
Loneliness affect other parts of your life, leading to separation and detachment and so the vicious spiral continues.
This is why this blog exist. We help fight for the normal guys, who, for the purpose of this community, are known as “Geeks”. We empower and energize you so you can reconnect with your purpose – to be the awesome man who can bring about love to a woman, become a couple and if so desired – develop a family who can contribute to more love and growth into the world.
We help you solve your fear of not being enough, fear of not belonging, fear of not being loved and to empower you so you can relief yourself from your hurts and pain.
Does This Sound Familiar?
These are very true summarized accounts of my experiences of young love:
Past Case 1:
Back at High School, I confided to my schoolmate that I had crush on this gorgeous girl who was a grade below us. Little did I know, word got around of this supposed secret and the boys told that girl about my crush for her.
Turns out, her beauty was only on her exterior, not at all beautiful, caring or loving by nature on the inside. She was very much prejudice and called me a derogatory name, and the guys came up to me to repeat her name-calling to my face.
I was demoralized and for the longest time, I thought there was something wrong with me and that no girl in their right mind would want to be with me. I felt not good enough and disconnected to members of the opposite sex.
Past Case 2:
In my 20’s, I had another crush. Yet, the thought patterns I developed from my High School crush still lived inside me. So, while I stood adoring this beautiful lady, I could not tell her how much I liked her from the inside. There was no way I could “risk” her knowing on the outside.
All I could do was scan photos I took of her and write a poem on my computer, and pasted her images around my words. Showed it to only a good friend of mine and he said that I must show it to her. It took me over a year, and by the time I did work up enough courage, I showed it to her. Very “cowardly lion” type. I gave it to her inside an envelope and trust her to read it.
While this lady was beautiful, kind hearted, caring and loving; it was already too late for me. She had already decided on one of her many suitors.
My Lessons:
- Time does not wait for you.
- Women do not wait for you to act.
- I didn’t realize it at the time, what I wanted was a Relationship Coach, who can guide me to reconnect with my internal resources that I needed.
- While I am very happy in love with my “Queen”, my Princess and my young Prince, I realised in my maturity that LOVE comes from the inside, and expressed on the outside.
- Love cannot be found externally. Happiness is not given to you by other people. Love and happiness are decisions.
- Love thyself first, and then you’ll attract the woman who shares in that love (Joel de la Cruz)
How Did I Find My Warrior?
I ended up dating many women in my life; of different nationalities and cultures. I am still the same person, I am still who I am. So what changed?
By many standards (magazines, TV, movies) I am by no means a “handsome” fellow. I’m below an average man’s height. I lacked a chiselled physique, a man’s voice and money.
What I did find was my Inner Warrior. The good news is, that everyone has one. Everyone!!! I had mentors and a great coach. It was like the story of Simba in the Lion King, or the mentorship and coaching of Luke Skywalker by his Yoda.
It was then that I saw my inner power. My strength. I conquered my fear. My circumstance changed. Love came flowing into my life. It was grand!!! It is fantastic!!!
I am now an authority on mindset, transformational, and relationship coaching.
Now, I am overflowing in the abundance of love, joy, happiness. Immersed in certainty, adventure, significance, connection, growth and contribution.
Did You Know?
“The subjective feeling of loneliness increases risk of death by 26%, according to the new study in the journal Perspectives on Psychological Science. Social isolation — or lacking social connection — and living alone were found to be even more devastating to a person’s health than feeling lonely, respectively increasing mortality risk by 29% and 32%.”
~ Brigham Young University researcher Julianne Holt-Lunstad
The Census Bureau categorizes the term “unrelated individuals” to designate someone who does not live in a “family group.” Sadly, we’ve seen the percentage of persons living as “unrelated individuals” almost triple, increasing from 6 to 16 percent of all people during the last 40 years. A huge majority of those classified as “unrelated individuals” (about 70 percent) lived alone.
Do you want to become (or continue to be) part of the statistics?
We think your answer is NO. Isn’t it? You are more than your circumstance. You are here to love a significant other person. A lovely woman who is right for you and who will love you. You are here to grow and contribute. Aren’t you?
What We Are NOT
We admit it. We are not known for the best “how to date” websites out there. We are not known for being “pick up artist” either. We are not “Hitch”. We do not teach you how to get laid – we believe that you already know how to do that naturally (on your own) and it is a total disrespect to you if someone else has to teach you to do that. You are more than these things.
We do not offer a so called best “complete system” of dating. There is no “magic pill” here, nor any sort of “magic bullet”.
We do not offer scripts or pick-up lines. Please – you are more than that. You do not need to pay for things like that. To learn pick-up strategies and scripts is not only time consuming, it is also doomed to begin with. What happens then, when you have been lucky and did pick up? Will your scripted lines save you after she gets out of bed? What do you say next? What happens if she wants a “relationship” with you? What will you do then?
Sex does not replace, not is it a solution, the loneliness in your heart or the depression that is stirring inside you. Only your six core needs will do that. This is where our strength kicks in, and you beginning to live and love (again).
This is what we do teach and help you with… we teach you learn more about YOU and from there, be empowered, energized and connect with people again. No need to learn lines because you already have the resources you need. We help you bring out those internal resources and make it work for you.
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While we may not be the best blog on “How To Date Beautiful Women”; we do much MORE . We know the hows and whys of personal transformation that produces inner power and vibrancy that attract people, success and love. We know how to coach in a simple, effective and dynamic way. All the cool tools of information that you cannot find in other websites. This is modern and EXCLUSIVE to community members only.
Our ultimate outcome for you is to BE the MAN who is worthy to BE with a Beautiful Women and a life filled with many blessings. That’s a very important and huge distinction.
We work on your BEING, not on your doing. Don’t do what everybody else is failing at. Don’t do loneliness, at the same time don’t do divorce either.
We care for the man, YOU, who can then care for the Woman.
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What’s In It For You?
There are many benefits and values you can learn and experience from Geeks Want Love:
- Love
- Clarity of vision – know what you’re looking for and why
- Awareness – be awake, use your sense to serve you vision
- CONFIDENCE
- Power of Persuasion
- Control of your life
- Opportunity to Heal your life
- Friendship
- Significance – feel unique and important again in a resourceful way
- Excitement and Adventure
- Intimacy and Romance
- And more Love
You can make changes to other parts of your when you discover to release your inner warrior and lover. You also make an impact in your career/business, health, finance, hobby, adventure, intimacy, relationships and more.
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Are you interested in a life more than the feeling of loneliness? Are you bored of sitting at the corner on your own at family gatherings?
Do you want to be part of the growing statistic of being the ‘dead man walking’?
Wouldn’t you rather a life filled with richness, filled with joy, happiness, fill with abundance of love???
Do you want to claim your entitlement, your privilege, your right, your KINGDOM?
Yes, you can be with your Queen, and if you both so desire, have your own princesses and princes.
Look me, I’m an ordinary guy, and may not be feature in a Men’s magazine, and yet… I’m special in the eyes of my bride.
If I can get a Queen then you can too!!! Right???
Do You Want to Man Up?
You do??? Great!!!
Here’s a quick preview of the results you can get as you join our this special community. Your result will be the person who has the three C’s: Confidence, Charm and Charisma.
How does that sound to you?
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Love and Happiness to you,
from Geeks Want Love
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