Do Opposites Really Attract?
So… you’re a Man Geek who prefers the quiet life, comfort and safety of your own home, while enjoying some (not many and not often) adventures in your holidays. While, she, prefers to be out, wants adventure and plenty of variety.
Somewhere along the line, the needs and the wants of the Geek will conflict with the need and the wants of the Beauty. Won’t it?
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While this post serves to help the ‘unattached’ Man Geek to connect with a woman of high need for variety, the post can be useful for those Geeks who are already in relationships.
There are two of the six core need that are at play here: Certainty and Uncertainty.
- People who have a high need of uncertainty don’t mind a bit of disorder, chaos, and wants variety and adventure.
- Conversely, its mirror core need is certainty where people wants safety, security, comfort and they prefer order.
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How Do You Manage Your Woman Who Has a High Need for Adventure?
Any person, in this case a woman, who has a high need for variety and adventure are happiest when this particular need is met and satisfied. What if you’re pro-certainty? You prefer a quiet peaceful pond, no mess, just order, and comfort.
While it is nice to have the same of values, for example, sharing the thrill of travelling, there are advantages of having complementary (viewed as somewhat opposing) values. That is, peace time vs wild time.
Remember there are six core values that must be satisfied. These core needs are lifelines. They are needs, just like we need oxygen to live. We must also satisfy our human core needs in order to enjoy living. It’s not enough to just satisfy and focus on just the one core need. There must be a balance to meet all six core needs – resourcefully.
Dating the Girl with Need of Variety
There are two ways to handle this:
- You must, in fact there is no choice in the matter, satisfy your own need for uncertainty / variety / adventure. When you satisfy you own need of uncertainty then you can share the feelings of such with your woman. Fair enough that you desire to meet variety is not as high as her, you will still make an impact to your connection with her and strengthen the bond you have together.
- She too has to meet her need of certainty. This is where you can help the most if certainty is your core driver. You can provide stability in her life. Simply being the rock. You can show her how to be orderly, provide her with safety and comfort.
Did You Know?
- People think they like or “LURVE” all kinds of surprises. In fact, they only like surprises that feels good for them.
- When there is an UNEXPECTED AND UNPLEASANT surprise, the person will look to meet their need of certainty.
- The number 1 reason why couples break up has nothing to do with providing security or adventure. The number 1 reason why couples break up is due to not satisfying the need of significance.
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