When my girlfriend broke up with me, it hurt quite a bit. In fact, it hurt like hell. Words can’t express the feeling. It felt like I couldn’t breathe. The pain of it all.
What can be worse than that?
I discovered she was seeing some other guy behind my back. Now… that’s totally f__ked!!!
At that point, I was emotionally crippled. Like this old guy in the picture. Really guys… I was a mess. I didn’t eat well. I couldn’t go outside. I hated weekends (because weekends was reserved for her) and I couldn’t go out to places that I used to walk with her.
I became a recluse… a hermit. Prisoner of my room. Hostage of my heart.
Eight months went past and I was still the same. Anything and everything in my mind was the same: “Why the f__k did she do this to me?”, “What did I do wrong?”, “How could she…?”, “How could I have done it differently?”, “What if I apologise (for anything, I’ll even make up sh!t) so she can take me back?”, “How did she manage to pull the wool over my eyes?”, “Was I so blind that I didn’t see this sh!t coming?”, “WHAT’S WRONG WITH ME?!?!?!?!”
The worst part of it all was… I filmed a sad sap music video showing how sad and miserable I was, with the saddest Phil Collins’ song I could dub in it. I don’t know if she watched. Oh God I hope not.
Yes… that’s right. I WAS PATHETIC.
Many other things were going on in my life at the time. I had a new challenging job in which I was learning new systems and adjusting to new personalities in the office. I was finishing up my Bachelor’s Degree, part-time. I moved in to a new house – learn new driving routes to take to work, different departure times. I was stressed with work and studies. At the same time, nursing a mangulated heart… or whatever was left of it and my mind.
Know what’s worst than doing a Phil Collins music video in which I was the star??? I did anything to get back together with her. I wrote letters. I emailed, texted, and called her. I even called the bastard who ‘stole’ her to find out why he did what he did. I made excuses to go to her house. I even took a knee… a complete sign of surrender.
Could you relate to this?
If you do then that’s great. There is hope and a new life that’s way more promising and delightful.
Something happened. As this event was ages ago, and life is different now, I am lost in the details (which is probably a good thing). What I recall was making a decision. First it was unconscious, so I wasn’t aware that I was making the decision. Suddenly my life made a massive turn around.
I started meeting other girls. Formed new friendships. I had a smile on my face. I took time to be around with my old friends. Life took a whole new meaning.
Rather than chasing a lost cause. Chasing after a girl who did not value me. I had girls chasing me. I may not be the most handsome fellow in the world and yet I can say proudly that I had girls wanting to be with me.
I could go on and on about it here… I won’t, it’ll take too long. I’ll keep the important strategical and tactical info for the Geek’s Forum and webinars for Members only. I’ll fill you in, on how I did it in the AMA (Ask Me Anything).
What Important for You Right Now… if you’re currently in this mess would you like to learn how to break the curse?
I created an eBooklet for you to download with my compliments. I know how painful the old journey was for me, and I hate to see a fellow brother go through it. Geeks stand united. We must support each other for the common good.
This eBooklet is about how to get your love-life back into a proud shape and start attracting a new found sense of goodness, connection and intimacy. It contains simple strategies that you can implement right now and get YOU back to the road of happiness.
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A man must know what he wants and what pleases him through the eyes first so he can start feeling it in his heart.
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To your happiness and success
Joel de la Cruz
PS please don’t ask me which Phil Collins song I used for my hapless video. It’s embarrassing that I shared this so publicly. Cheers !!!