It’s not so much about WHAT a woman looks for in a man; rather, it’s WHY she look for these features in her ideal man.
Do you know what qualities women look for in a man (her man)?
I’ve asked this question every time to every girl I have dated and have an interest in for a long term relationship.
I wanted that clue. That gold. That inside information. I wanted the secret.
The question I asked each girl or girlfriend was “what do you look for in ‘the one’ (a boyfriend, or a potential husband)?”
It’s a fair enough question, isn’t it?
Have you asked the same question too? Or something similar?
What was your intention when you asked?
While my question was strategically strong and hedged a high end return on my ‘investment’, it did pose a lot of risk. Here’s why…
Just say your woman tells you what she wants (the answer is not about possession, it is about the qualities and character of a certain person). You then go and BE that person whom she wants in life. In other words, what if you PRETEND to have those qualities. The risk is, she ends up liking you and wants to be with you.
The Risk: do you go on pretending the rest of your life just so you can keep her? Bad mistake, my friend. Eventually, the real you must come out and surface. The actor in you can no longer keep up the act. Even the best of movies has an ending. The risk here is that you damage the relationship, the outcome will eventually be a break up. No one wants to be married or spend time with a pretender. No one does. Do you?
What if your woman tells you about her ideal man, and from experience her ideal man is based on a real live person. You don’t know this real live person. You will then used up your time investigating, researching about his person’s qualities and character.
If you happen to find out then you can choose to either pretend (again see the above risk) and in this case you will be found out even more because you have left breadcrumbs in your investigation. You could choose to give up the ‘ghost’ because you think that you can not possibly reach the high expectation of meeting someone else’s standards.
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It’s not about the qualities or the character of your woman’s ideal man. This is never about the what. It’s about WHY.
Why does she like those qualities or character. If you find out then this leads to how are these features important to her.
A woman who is consciously aware of why a certain character trait, personality, behaviour are all important to her, she then seeks these elements in her ideal man. She will at least find the best fit, or the closest fit. The woman who is conscious of this has a great relationship with that person who has these elements. It makes sense that she feel connected with her man who possesses these elements. She will more likely say yes, to go on dates or take the relationship up to the next level.
A woman who is not sure or has just some ideal and really doesn’t know why she likes certain character, personality, and behaviour, and if she does have a great relationship with a certain family member then she will unconsciously seek these elements in the men who asked her out. She won’t know it, as she will just feel drawn or attracted to certain men.
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