How good are you at measuring up your potential life partner? What metric system do you use to gauge whether or not if your last date would end up being your girlfriend and possibly your wife?
Do you have any metric system at all? Or do you just “wing it”?
This post tackles a very important and sensitive question of how men measure their latest introduction, date or girlfriend to go up to the next level. Could the newest intro, that is a girl referred by a friend of a friend, be worthy of being asked out on a date or two. How does he decide this? Is there a formula? A mathematical algorithm? HOW???
Does he weigh up the pros and cons of his latest exploits? Does he list the features and benefits of that girl and this girl? Does the girl have to pass multiple guess questions before he advances forward in the relationship?
Most importantly, how does he know if she is the ONE?
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Here are some possible objective metrics upon which men base their decisions:
- She must be 6 foot 2 and can put up with my craziness
- She must be able to cook
- She has to like travelling because I love to see the world
- She must be willing to have children because I want to father a basketball team
- She has to be able to do this? and that? in bed
- I hope she likes the Xbox because I can’t stand Playstation games.
- She better like steaks because I ain’t no vegetarian
- Not asking her on a date if she doesn’t like my jokes
- She has to be willing to fulfill my fantasies
- Facebook or Instagram?
- TV or movies?
- Does she smell good? She better smell good.
- Does she fit in a size 8?
- etc, etc…
Some of you may frown or laugh at the above examples. Depending on your reaction, it is just your own metric filters coming into play.
There are no right or wrong. No metric system is better than one or the other. Just say your metric system worked and you’re extremely happy with your life partner. Does this mean you can refer your metrics to someone else? Will it guarantee their success? Perhaps not, after all when we talk about matters of the heart there is no ‘one size fits all’.
How you measure your potential partner could be different to how your friend measures his women. No one’s is better – it is just DIFFERENT.
Words Do Fail M
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If you ask your friend about his girlfriend, ‘how did you guys meet?’. Your friend can answer with such clarity – “Oh (smiling) we met through a friend at work… we went out for drinks then we decided to go out on a date… yada yada”. You’ll get a precise answer.
If you were to ask another friend “hey, so… why did you decide to marry her?”. Your friend’s answer will not be so clear. You may get a response like:
- Hmmm, she completes me
- She makes me smile
- She’s smart
- She’s funny
- I like the way I feel when I’m around her
- or the classic line “she had me at ‘hello’!”
In other words… he doesn’t know.
To be more accurate, he cannot express it into words. Words fail the man, and every other man; to answer WHY he chose that particular woman to be his life partner.
While words fail, your friend does know how he FEELS about his partner. This part is certain. The only measurement that he can have certainty is his feeling. The way he feels about his partner circumvents any or all of his prior metric analysis.
We only know when we’ve found the ONE because it just feels right.
The Problem with Men and The Solution
This is not an exclusive problem just for men. In fact, this can also be a challenge for women too. Men are more likely unable to express himself into words and members of the opposite sex, especially with his woman, are then unable to grasp his true message, his real expression, his feelings.
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You’ll appreciate a much better metric system that will enable you to have the ‘gut feeling’. You’ll overcome your fears. You will be with a companion who will love you for who you truly are. You will learn to accept your vulnerability and express yourself with confidence.
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