Geeks Want Love

You Deserve to Be Loved

Geek is the new Sheik {Slang. a man held to be masterful and irresistibly charming to women.}

You want love. and you want to love. Don’t you?
We all want love, right? Without it, we cannot exist. Love can be found in every purpose of why we do what we do.

At your very core; if you strip away all your possessions, skills and talents; eventually you will discover that you actually need LOVE. You need it. You need love as much as your body needs oxygen, food and water. We ALL need it.

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Hi, my name is Joel and I’m a geek.

As far as I can remember, ever since high school, I was socially inept. It was challenging for me to make new friends. While I could associate with people my endeavour in social interaction would not afford me to be part of other groups. In other words, I felt like I didn’t belong.

Now, with my experience of engaging social activity with girls. Wow! Thinking back. It was painful. I felt like I wasn’t enough and that I wasn’t being loved.

This is why I started this blog and this community: to empower and energize others so that they can reconnect with their purpose.

The purpose of every individual, whether or not you’re the cool person, the celebrity, or you’re a nerd or a geek, we ALL need to be loved and giving love.

I was a late bloomer and it took me a long time to find my stride when it comes to relating to women.

When I finally discovered my purpose, strategies and tactics; life became more fun and exciting. I found out how I can be loved and be loving. I was able to attract and meet the ideal woman for me. I would go out on dates with confidence. Women became interested in me. This is a stark contrast to feeling rejected before (because I lacked confidence and other strategies). Now, I feel significant. I feel truly connected. You can do this too. Women can be interested in you too, right?

Love is the answer. I know it’s way too cliché, right? Regardless, the statement holds true. With love, you’ll be able to relate and communicate with the person you’re in love with, and that person is in love with you.

Being in love, you can be THE MAN, the leader, of your kingdom (your family). This means having the 5 P’s; Provider of your tribe, Protector of your realm, have the behaviour and be the archetype of Pastor and Priest, and the privilege and the pleasure of being the Procreator. This is what Geeks aspire to do and in the process they end up inspiring others. True or true?

The Strategies That Don’t Work

I remembered the time from my early 20’s. I wanted to have a girlfriend so bad that I paid for a program/product on how to be confident and pick up women. I felt ashamed that I hid the flimsy A4 folder and its content away from prying eyes (out of reach from my brother, out of sight from my parents). The program was about making an audio tape where I recorded affirmations for myself and I listen to it in my beta state.

The problem with that was, I hated the sound of my own voice. Even worse, I didn’t believe in the affirmation I was recording. I had disempowering and limiting beliefs. No amount of affirmations can break my poor self-esteem and my belief system. External solutions to internal problems are ineffective, so why use it?

In the end, this ineffective program just collected dust over the years and eventually shredded during the time I was in a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. There is a better way I had discovered which brings about desired outcomes of joy, love and happiness.

The Stunningly Simple Strategies That Works

When it comes to successfully engaging members of the opposite sex the most effective strategy is very simple. Yet most Geeks (and same with most non-geeks) over complicate the process and end up with poor outcomes. They are either rejected or denied further advancement in the social hierarchy of relationships. Thus resulting in disappointments, despair and depression.

If you’re a Geek and you want a relationship with a wonderful woman (your version of “wonder woman”) then you must keep things simple. Yes, while a good first impression counts, it is not the be all and end all. What you want is a strong, long lasting, nurturing and loving relationship with the woman you adore. What you need to enjoy this are the three C’s:-

Having a Compelling desire
Meeting her Core needs
Ability to Communicate effectively

This is the WHY, HOW and the WHAT on how to create and experience the relationship you want with your ‘wonder woman’.

The WHY serves as the inspiration. The magnet to which both of you will gravitated towards each other. This is your Compelling desire to be in a relationship in the first place. Without the why, there can be no action to move your life towards human love and bliss.

The HOW is the means by how bonded you are to your woman. Meeting just 2 of her core needs means you form a connection with your woman. Meeting 4 of her core needs means you form a bond with her. Meeting ALL her Core needs means she would never want to leave you. She will stay with you.

The WHAT is the activity that you are simply required to do in order to make your dreams come true. The effectiveness of your Communication is the response that it gets. Communication is your ability to enter into someone’s world or have someone enter into your world and give them an experience of YOU.

This Blog is all about you. It is about your unique geekiness and your ability to attract the love of your life. I know the finding and having a love life can be a roller coaster ride. It can be fun, and at times, it can be devastating to the soul. Past hurts and pain can actually limit your ability to enter into the new relationship which could result in love and bliss.

I personally invite you to be part of this community for the purpose of reconnecting with the resourcefulness you already possess. Together, may the Geeks unite and be supportive of each other as you individually progress through the courses and channel of life and love.

Be part of a group that has a common theme, and that is for you to experience the sight, the sounds and the feel of your ideal woman who is willing and able to love you til the end of time.

Do sign up to your free membership of this blog. By doing so:

You will receive more information about the stunningly simple strategies to awesome relationships (in a downloadable pdf).
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You will also receive special invitations to special topic webinars or programs on relationship matters and what this will mean for the Geek.