We’ve all seen movies like Revenge of the Nerds, American Pie, etc in which the major theme is about sex and the urgency of losing one’s virginity surrounded with heavy peer pressure. If you experienced this theme and peer pressure during your high school or college years, don’t worry, you weren’t alone. They were fun times with high energy, while for some – who were depressed with peer pressure and lack of experience, those times are best forgotten.
There are two ways this could have gone down. You were either the cool kid who got laid or you were one of the Geeks (waiting to blossom into a Sheik) hoping to get laid. No matter which way your school journal went, you have to agree that peer pressure existed and was applied to every single child.
This post is for the latter, the cool Geeks who didn’t get so “lucky” during those years in school. Either adolescent experience has its Pros and Cons.
Impact on Future Relationships
So you didn’t get laid in High School, or College/University. So what? It’s no big deal. What’s important is now. Who you are now, what you’re doing, why you’re doing it, and what you have in your life as of this very moment.
The fact that you’re reading this post right now is telling me a lot about who you are and who you want to be. If you don’t like how your life feels at the moment then you can make a decision to do something about it.
Some of my High School mates and other friends who dived into sexual relationships early, I mean as early as the 7th grade, are struggling with their relationships at present. Some chosen to marry early, only to find themselves with another partner later on in life (or worse, find themselves alone). From what I’ve seen, it is very rare to see childhood sweethearts end up growing ‘old’ together. Very rare indeed! This means their relationship is valuable. More value than the worth of getting laid at 13.
So why do sexually active people in their teens get emotionally disturbed in their 30’s and 40’s?
The answer goes deeper than to explain it here (we go deeper into this at the membership levels). What is important to note is that each event in your life, especially the big personal or social events, leave emotional footprints. Think of footprints left in the mud. The larger the emotional experience the bigger and DEEPER the footprint. The footprint becomes an imprint of the mind and thus affects decisions in the future.
Some emotional footprints becomes an anchor. Just like an anchor on a boat, this type of ‘anchor’ acts in the same way and it keeps its person at bay. In practical terms, if the event was pleasant, the person will seek the same experience all the time, every time, in their unconscious mind. If future experiences didn’t live up to the same ‘footprint’ level then that person will seek the experience with someone else. Hence, a higher chance of separation or divorce (if the person married early in life).
Good News Geeks
While I wasn’t one of those cool studs in High School, I don’t regret my own journey. I did experience peer pressure and the expectations of social media (back then it was the movies, TV shows and commercials). I actually consider myself blessed that I chose my own time to become intimate with someone who means more to me than the short lived significance others had experienced.
I did have my woes growing up. I hated Valentines Day for starters and I hated being at parties and social gatherings where friends turn up with their partners. I hated being the odd wheel. The loner without a date.
What I don’t regret, and this is a blessing, is not being a victim of morbid separations and relentless consequences of divorce. I’ve seen the faces of the old cool kids who have been stricken with emotional turmoil. They look old; as in older than they should, with low energy. I prefer to keep my childlike youth, wouldn’t you?
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